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Resolved Question: What are some good study tips for people who get bored easily?
I'm a college junior, and you'd think that I'd have some good study habits by now, but you'd be wrong. Right now, I have a math quiz tomorrow morning, but here I am surfing the internet. What are some good study suggestions?
September 30, 2009 at 11:18 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: My grades are dropping?
Yes I am a junior in high school now and every throughout my freshman and sophomeore year i got straight A's, but now i moved and am going to a different school and suddenly my grades are dropping?? I never had a C but today I got a C on my test. I am scared wat do i do. I am a diligent worker and dont watch tv or play games or surf much, y is this happening??
September 28, 2009 at 3:44 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I'm beginning to feel like my new school is destroying my life?
I'm a junior and this is my fifth week at a new school, with about 500 students. Before then I went to a tiny private school in the same town with only about 250 students. My new school is the number one charter school in the nation, and I had an optimistic attitude despite being separated from every my friends. Four weeks later my optimism has completely faded. Academically this is one of the most difficult schools you could imagine. Five hours of homework a night. I've always had a great education, and had maintained a B average, but this year I am getting two As a B a D and an F. I am already getting tutored, but I'm not sure my effort will be good enough. I mean five hours of serious working and a 2.5 gpa? wtf! Socially is just as horrible. I've met a few people that I'm chummy with but since there is no cafeteria it's difficult finding people that you want to have lunch with. No one seems to be looking for a new pal since most of them have known each other since 7th grade. These past 3 weeks I've sat with these two REALLY nerdy guys. Now I don't mean to be shallow, they're nice guys and I guess I like them, but I'm not sure I have anything in common with them. I miss being able to chit chat with just about anybody form my old school. I'm not depressed but really frustrated and lonely. My parents keep telling me going to this school was good for college, but not if I receive an F. They also say that I'll make friends. I'm already signing up for the lacrosse team (even though I'll receive massacred) and the surf club, but I can't guarantee that I'll make friends that way. I don't think I can live like this for two years. Any supportive advice with academics or friends will be greatly appreciated. I'm not moping I just want to receive out of this situation. and tots?
September 22, 2009 at 12:54 am | click here to view more
Voting Question: How Can I Cause Her Public Humiliation?
im not actually causing someone embarassment. I am writing a story. and there is a new girl named Kendell who is really sporty and does not fit in with the normal wealthy preppy girl stereotype. She starts bonding with the in-crowd guys on the surf team. This one girl Natalie starts getting jealous. Natalie is like the head honcho at their school. Natalie and the "in-crowd" are juniors, and Kendell is a freshman. When Natalie over look's her crush Lewis kiss Kendell, she goes on a war path. What is a way that Natalie can embarass Kendell?
September 16, 2009 at 6:49 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How to deal with a college designated driver situation?
I am headed off to CSU East Bay in Hayward, CA as a junior who just turned 20. I don't know anything about my 3 other dormmates yet, but I am wondering, what if this happens: I could wind up being the only person in our dorm apartment with a car (unlikely, but possible). Since I am not eligible to drink yet, could they wind up asking me to drop them off at a bar and pick them up and such if they want to go partying? If I don't want to do it that night, but have nothing else to do except surf the net or watch movies, would it be rude to turn them down? How should I do it? Also, what about them asking me to pick them up from bars tardy? I don't mind dropping them off somewhere in the evening, but I am leery about being out in Hayward after 9pm. Is it safe? And how to deal with a pick up if they call needing a ride at 2am (waking me up) and have no money for bus/cab--should I just suck it up and go pick them up? I know there's a good chance this won't happen, but I am worried about it. Having spent my first year of college at a very silent, private college called Mills, and then deciding to go home to the community college (b/c of expenses and changing career ideas) I never ran into this before, and am not sure what to do should any of it occur. I know that it's a lot of questions here, but I am curious/concerned about each of them. I do care about my future dormmates and don't want them to be stuck unsafe due to not having a designated driver or stuck somewhere with no ride, but I also don't want to be roped into being bar chauffer every Thursday/Friday/Saturday night. I don't want to be a dormat...but I don't want to be rude or worse, uncaring either (I'm not calling the answerer those things, just concerned about them myself).
September 16, 2009 at 3:03 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: BONUS POINTS colleges in florida?
ok so im just a junior but im looking for colleges in florida and wanted to know if u guys could help.. 1) needs to be resonably affordable 2) HAS TO BE close OR ON THE BEACH 100% cuz i surf 3) possibly want to be a marine or oceanographer idk yet 4)public school THANK YOU SO MUCH arrive UP WITH AS MANY SCHOOLS AS POSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!!
September 1, 2009 at 10:04 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: What TO DO WITH MY TIME!!?
Ok here is my current situation: I am 16 and in my junior year of High School and am currently taking some advanced classes that require about 4 hours or so of homework per night. This usually makes me tend to just go home after school and do my homework, and after it is done its too tardy to really go out and do anything with friends. This makes it so i spend much of my time just sitting on my computer, playing video games because...I really have no idea what else to do. I am looking for some suggestions on ways to spend time that is not just sitting on my computer, playing games, watching TV, or surfing youtube. I would really appreciate any suggestions you might have and i thank you for our time. P.S. I don't like making models or collecting anything. Not many "Hobbies" interest me.
October 4, 2009 at 1:58 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: is a macbook pro the right laptop for me ANSWER THIS?
i'm 17 and a junior. i plan to keep the same laptop for prob 4-5 years for school and i hear most pc laptop dont last that long so i looked at mac. so the main thing i will be doing is surfing the web youtube, facebook, etc. and school projects. also i will buy some games for it like assasins creed 2 and bioshock 2. i plan to buy the next macbook pro. and if trends follow i will prob buy the 3.06 ghz model for $2000. will this be a good pick as thats like 1/3 of every the money i have. will it still surf the web well in about 5 years. or will it be very slow. also do macs slow down over time like a pc or do they run like new for ever. (no need to do a reinstall to make it run like you just bought it). thanks for the help i will be taking good care of the laptop and will use bootcamp for the games. also are the screens that much nicer on a mac cause they always seen so nice. they look really sharp and they are so colorfull. and bright. also battery life and # of charges is a concern since mac says it lasts 3 times as long and batteries cost like $100 or more.
October 29, 2009 at 3:29 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I'm the new kid. Is this situation abnormal?
So I'm a new junior at middle school/high school that only has 480 students. I've met some people I've become friendly with, but I'm still nice of lonely. There's this one group of friends, that I had a few experiences with outside of school, but like only twice. There is also my best pal from elementary school, who's also part of that little group. Everyone in there is real nice and friendly to me, and I like a lot. However, they always go off of campus during lunch, and since they are also pretty popular I'm to shy to invite myself. I've met other people to, but its the same situation. Almost everyone at the school has known each other since 7th grade, and they have their possess friends already. During most lunches I spend with the nerdy people, and although they are nice, and I do like them I don't think I have very much in common with them. I joined the lacrosse team, and the surf club so I have an extra-curricular, and I can meet more people. But point is that I still feel like a bit of an outsider, and I'm nice of shy. It's been two months. Should I start getting worried, about being alone for the whole year or is it normal for friendships to take so slowly. I actually hung out with the group I wanted to be part of once with a mutual pal from my old school and it was totally awesome. So I feel pretty good about these people. You Ask I shall answer- I receive what you are saying, but I might as well try to like the gift as much as possible
October 23, 2009 at 7:03 pm | click here to view more
Voting Question: Junior cert art project 2010?
Just got my themes for my junior cert art project. i picked "out and about" and seeing as i have a great adore for surfing want to do it on that. Has anyone got any ideas? Thanks x
October 10, 2009 at 4:45 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Junior cert art project - Surfing!?
Got my themes for my junior cert art project and i have chosen "out&about" and as surfing is one of my big interests i am going to do it on that. Has anyone got any ideas at every? :) Thanks x
October 10, 2009 at 4:19 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How long does it take to get over a 2 year relationship? Is there any relative code or theory to go by?
(If you are bored and scanning random yahoo questions to answer, please take the time to read and give me some advice. I'm young and do not have any non-bias help. It may or not be boring to YOU, but my life needs to receive back to normal and any help you can give is very appreciated. You're just surfing the web anyways right? :D ) My ex and I started dated summer between sophomore and junior year of high school. We had a few fights early on, but grew on each other and after 6 months or so everything was great. After about a year and a half we started getting upset at each other pretty often. Of course once we hit college, things got a little complicated. I wanted to take a job in California for the summer but she said a long distance relationship couldn't work, even for just 3 months. I went anyways. Two weeks into the break up, a girl from high school called me telling me she was in LA for the week. Being depressed and lonely as I was, I willingly drove to LA and fulfilled the "booty-call". Ex calls me a week later crying, she doesn't want the break up anymore. Being the dumb ass that I am I chose to omit LA endeavor, as to not ruin this second chance. I ended up flying her to California for a visit and everything seemed to be going perfect. After the summer job I fly home and we start our Freshman year of college. Couple months down the road, good ol' booty call buddy spills her guts to several girls from high school, and of course I receive my ass dumped from out of the blue. I admit my guilt, accept the break up, and attempt to apologize, after every I did lie about it. About two or three weeks later it's christmas break and the ex once again decides she can't handle the break up and this time I am a bit more reluctant. Not because I wasn't crazy about her, because I was/am, but because I knew if I told her about EVERYTHING I did during my drunken rampage over the last few weeks she would want nothing to do with me. We sat down and made a plan. She was going to mexico for 2 weeks with her family, and I was going on a road trip back to LA to rescue my broke ass best pal. During this time we would be social, look how its like not communicating with each other, and be ready for a new beginning on the day we both got back. Well, she flew in 10 hours before I got back from California. She threw a party at her apartment the night she got back, and called me telling me to rush up so we could kick everyone else out and rape me. Sadly she must have gotten too drunk and passed out by the time i got there around 3 am, as the door was locked and her phone was off. No biggy, I accident at my place, waking up the next day to a text from the Ex's best pal: "omg Jon your super girlfriend fucked one of your best friends last night." Of course I check for confirmation from at least 3 other eye witnesses that were at the party before i exploded with anger. Gather every thing that had to do with her in my entire apartment, her clothes, clothes she bought me, every photos, and every items that remotely reminded me of her, took them to her apartment in a giant box and left it on her doorstep with a note: :keep these or burn these just don't ever talk to me again". Next I drove to my exbestfriends home and used my wedge on his truck windows. So its over right? Any sane person would agree... right? I must be going insane. I take 6 months for myself. After almost 3 years of seeing each other 6/7 days of the week or more, I went 6 straight months without seeing her once. During that time I heard every sorts of excuses and apologies, and finally forgave both the ex and the pal. I best of every know what it's like to black out and bang someone random. Advice i received from friends of course never varied from "Bro!! now you can drink and bone whoever every day!". Not so encouraging since I couldn't even talk to another girl without wishing it was the ex and thought about her at least 10 times a day. I tried sobriety, f*** buddies, a month of solid work and school, and anything and everything i could think of to keep my mind off of her. Didn't work. I still HATED talking to girls. For whatever reason I just couldn't find a single stimulating conversation with any of them. So, it again was time for change. July of this year I unregistered for every of my classes, quit my job, and moved my ass to Texas where I am now. I even came with one of my best friends and a girl that I had been dating. She realized after a month that I didn't want a REAL relationship with her and that I brought her so I could receive laid without having to meet any new girls. Needless to say she's back home now. Also, I started talking with the Ex again, just as text friends, but i could not cease wishing we were back together. She changed schools and got a new football player boyfriend.. awesome. Okay, if you have stuck through this boring story I applaud you and now I have the real problem for you. She texts me yesterday "I
November 18, 2009 at 9:38 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Anyone got ideas for a christmas gift to give a 16 year old brother?
My brother is 16, a junior and I don't know what to receive him for Christmas. He likes surfing, baseball, basketball, he has ps3, he has the new call of duty game, he has the new madden game, he likes the yankees, and giants, and he has an ipod touch, and my mom usually gets him an itunes gift card. Any ideas?!
November 17, 2009 at 1:07 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Am I a nerd inside?????
I'm considered the popular and smart girl in my junior class. Lots of the boys want to ask me out, but when i go home, I play Runescape, and surf the web. Nobody knows about my secret life, which I have no reason to hate it, but should I continue to browse the web and play online? Or is it childish and nerdy. SHOULD I TELL PEOPLE? thanks :) <3 Ashley
November 15, 2009 at 3:28 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Adderal-general questions and do my symptoms fit add?
I am a current college student and I feel the need for add medicine more and more every day. I was almost held back in 3rd grade for bad grades and doctors told my parents that I should be held back and put on Ritalin. My parents refused Ritalin and being held back and talked them into me going to 4th grade if I took a special class a few times a week to help it. Through middle school I was fine and got good grades. By High school my energy was very low and I just couldn't concentrate. I had a teacher sit me down and tell me that I was the most sleepy person he had ever met (slept through lunch multiple times). I slept in at least 3 classes a day even though I would snooze atleast 8 hours every night, I didn't drink and even went a year without soda to improve energy. Thankfully through multiple A's in band classes every year I ended with over a 3.0 to receive into college. Now in college my first 2 years my grades were bad and I couldn't do anything to help them up. I dropped many classes and had to pick up easy classes to keep my gpa decent. Since junior year I dabbled with adderal and have found my grades rise as well as motivation to do every the tiny stuff I don't have the energy or motivation to do gets done when on it. I guess you can say my symptoms include tiredness, lack of motivation, lack of being able to complete concentration tasks well, low ability to stay in an area for long (watch movies). My doctor refused to prescribe me to add medicine because he doesn't believe in it, and told me I will have to work a job after school that will allow me to work with my add. He has prescribed me to zoloft for anxiety purposes but i decided to not take it, but I feel add medicine would fix everything. I am bright and when motivated I believe I could be very successful after school. During my internship last summer I literally spent about 10-15% of my time doing work and the relax of the time yawning and surfing the internet. The other intern was constantly doing work and ended up with a job upon completion. Do I meet the requirements for add medicine? I am worried about the long term effects of it, and wonder if I take it for 10 or so years I will have to take it forever. If I take it for a long period of time, will it result in health issues? I would adore to be prescribed but fear that if I start taking it at this age I will take it forever, which is fine if the rewards are greater than the risks. I'd appreciate any feedback!
November 11, 2009 at 4:45 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How can I keep from being so tired/sluggish?
I'm a Junior in High School, and things are piling up quick. I have a real tendency to just procrastinate and let things sit while I just randomly surf the web or watch TV shows I've seen a million times before. It's not so much an issue with self-control - at least I don'tt hink so - I just receive so caught up in things I'd rather be doing, and it's easy to just forget. Any advice?
March 8, 2010 at 8:52 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: California college with a most active lifestyle?
I'm a junior in high school in the Big Island of Hawaii. I want to go to California for more opportunity and fun. I am looking for a college where I can play baseball for sure! (probably getting a scholorship for pitching and I dont want to hear about how difficult california schools are because I know already) I also want to surf, skate, mountain bike, and do anything else crazy I can think of. I got a 3.5 GPA and expecting a 1500-1600 on SAT's next week.. Any help/ideas?
March 7, 2010 at 4:45 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Do you think I will be able to get a scholarship?
I plan on attending University of Hawai'i at Manoa or Flagler in St. Augustine, I currently live in Jacksonville, Florida and would adore to go to UH or Flagler. My GPA is a 3.5 collectively for my highschool classes up to now, (I'm 2nd semester junior). I plan on taking AP Statistics and AP Psych next year. I have taken AP Euro, got a 2 on the exam. I have 100 community service hours, a 1900 SAT (670 Math, 630 Reading Skills?, 600 Writing skills) and plan on going there for architecture (UH is "there") or engineering if it offers it, I haven't looked into it much. So, do you think I would be able to receive a scholarship to either college and if so how big of a scholarship? I also have 2 sports that I've done in High School, am involved in Eastern Surfing Association and am going to regionals and probobly Easterns (Would that count as an extra carricular?) So would I receive a scholarship in your opinion?
March 1, 2010 at 7:57 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Is it too late for me?
Hello every, I recently finished my first semester of college, and I am very disappointed in myself. My grades consist of the following: A B in English, which isn't that bad (although I would rather have an A), C in Intermediate algebra, which is odd because for the first two exams I just could not seem to receive it, but as the course moved on the material became much easier for me to understand and I earned a B on the last exam. and finally a C in linguistics, music, and psychology (not 101, but 205). The thing is it's not like I tried my absolute best, I skipped many psych and linguistic lectures, and got behind on the material that I needed to know for the exams. In my music class even though I attended the lecture I would just surf the web on my laptop. Luckily none of these classes were for my major, which is clinical laboratory sciences. The classes that i am taking this upcoming semester are for my major they are; anatomy, chemistry 100 (intro course), communications 101 (easy A) and a jewish studies class (which is an easy A too). My question is basically do you think i will be able to receive my crap together and buckle down for this upcoming semester so i can make sure that my gpa is over a 3.0. 1 minute ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details also i took chemistry in my junior year in high school without taking algebra 2 before and earned a b, so i'm not too worried about that sorry, i didn't mean to put this in this section. But could anyone answer it anyway :)
January 3, 2010 at 5:18 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Will I get into the University of San Diego?
I currently am a junior at a Private Catholic college preparatory high school. My Freshman and Sophomore years have been a bit rough. My average GPA for those years was a 3.1. I just finished first semester of Junior year and received a 3.4 and I wish to continue to lift my GPA to an at least 3.6 this year. My senior year I will be able to maintain a 3.6 without a problem. I had one sibling graduate from USD. I have done every the required community service hours 100 total. I started our surf club which raises money for not only Heal the Bay™ but for other various causes such as the relief effort in Haiti. My GPA has been increasing through out my time at this high school and I am confident it will continue to do so. Any questions feel free to respond. Thank you.
January 28, 2010 at 11:10 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Need Help With Writing Assignment Please?
Below is a Writing Assignment that I need help with. Please correct it for me. Any errors or misspelled words. Thanks in advance. I enrolled this class to help me improve the way I use language I know that communication skills are important, and I’m afraid that my gift skills are below average. They’re not good enough for me to receive the nice of job I want I also enrolled in this class because its required in my major. Accounting is my major I chose this major because I like working with figures. And because I know that many good jobs are available in accounting. Although, I thought that accountants worked totaly with figures. My advisor tells me that accountants also need to be able to explain their work to management, to fellow employees, and to clients. My language skills are not terrific, and I want to improve. When I finish my accounting program, Ihope to receive a job in the entertainment industry as a Junior Accountant. I have a parttime job at Pizza Bob’s. Where I deliver pizzas to campus dormitories, or to apartments an homes. I like my job because I receive to meet people and because it helps me pay for my car and it’s insurance. When I’m not studing or working, I like to surf the internet. My favorite places to visit are World wide web sites devoted to unusual hobbys and businesses. Right now I’m interested in CyberSlice,” a site showing the menus of participating pizzerias in a neighborhood. May be I can receive Pizza Bob to participate!
January 26, 2010 at 12:10 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Need Help With Writing Assignment Plz?
Please correct this assignment. Add or delete words. Thanks! I enrolled this class to help me improve the way I use language I know that communication skills are important, and I’m afraid that my gift skills are below average. They’re not good enough for me to receive the nice of job I want I also enrolled in this class because its required in my major. Accounting is my major I chose this major because I like working with figures. And because I know that many good jobs are available in accounting. Although, I thought that accountants worked totaly with figures. My advisor tells me that accountants also need to be able to explain their work to management, to fellow employees, and to clients. My language skills are not terrific, and I want to improve. When I finish my accounting program, Ihope to receive a job in the entertainment industry as a Junior Accountant. I have a parttime job at Pizza Bob’s. Where I deliver pizzas to campus dormitories, or to apartments an homes. I like my job because I receive to meet people and because it helps me pay for my car and it’s insurance. When I’m not studing or working, I like to surf the internet. My favorite places to visit are World wide web sites devoted to unusual hobbys and businesses. Right now I’m interested in CyberSlice,” a site showing the menus of participating pizzerias in a neighborhood. May be I can receive Pizza Bob to participate!
January 25, 2010 at 8:32 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Need Help With Writing Assignment?
Below is a Writing Assignment that I need help with. Please correct it for me. Any errors or misspelled words. Thanks in advance. I enrolled this class to help me improve the way I use language I know that communication skills are important, and I’m afraid that my gift skills are below average. They’re not good enough for me to receive the nice of job I want I also enrolled in this class because its required in my major. Accounting is my major I chose this major because I like working with figures. And because I know that many good jobs are available in accounting. Although, I thought that accountants worked totaly with figures. My advisor tells me that accountants also need to be able to explain their work to management, to fellow employees, and to clients. My language skills are not terrific, and I want to improve. When I finish my accounting program, Ihope to receive a job in the entertainment industry as a Junior Accountant. I have a parttime job at Pizza Bob’s. Where I deliver pizzas to campus dormitories, or to apartments an homes. I like my job because I receive to meet people and because it helps me pay for my car and it’s insurance. When I’m not studing or working, I like to surf the internet. My favorite places to visit are World wide web sites devoted to unusual hobbys and businesses. Right now I’m interested in CyberSlice,” a site showing the menus of participating pizzerias in a neighborhood. May be I can receive Pizza Bob to participate!
January 25, 2010 at 6:47 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How do you join a new competitive soccer club?
My work is transferring me to another state. We absolutely adore the soccer club (Surf) we are currently in and to say we hate to leave is a huge understatement. It truly is a great club. We are actually considering not leaving and losing my job to stay because of this great club. What suggestions do you have? What are the "to do's" and what the "not to do's?" We are so unhappy and just need some encouragement on how receive on with another club many states away if after we take the job transfer? My 10 year old daughter was not chosen for 3 competitive soccer clubs (Intra, Escondido, and Poway) before we entered the one we did. Mikaila works difficult. Instead of going skiing, doing Junior Lifeguard, karate, volleyball, and other things, she focuses on soccer. She says we joined a soccer club to play soccer, not these other things. Thanks.
January 22, 2010 at 12:53 pm | click here to view more
Voting Question: Which of these 2 laptops would be best for me.?
I'm looking to buy a laptop for college (I'm a junior in high school, but next year I will do some PSEO classes and then after I graduate, college). I'm not into gaming like WoW and stuff, just some online stuff like Tetris, so graphics don't really matter. I just want one for typing papers, surfing the Internet, watching DVDs (not as important). Which one of these 2 looks the best. Any other suggestions that aren't incredibly expensive are welcome. http://www.bestbuy.com/site/Toshiba+-+Satellite+Laptop+with+Intel%26%23174%3B+Pentium%26%23174%3B+Processor+-+Nova+Black/9549081.p?skuId=9549081&id=1218122294916 http://www.bestbuy.com/site/Dell+-+Inspiron+Laptop+with+Intel%26%23174%3B+Pentium%26%23174%3B+Processor+-+Pacific+Blue/9528825.p?id=1218119756637&skuId=9528825 Bonus Question: I adore music, I have about 1,000 songs on my desktop here at home, but if I receive a laptop, I don't want to slow it down and take every the memory with music. Can I buy a external hardrive, fill it with my music from home, and plug it in to the laptop, and have the music on it and then when I unplug it, the music isn't saved on it?
February 21, 2010 at 1:01 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: which netbook do you recommend?
i already have a Compaq so i just want a tiny one i can travel with or do homework on the desktop is to just do other surf the web and stuff like that : i want to know the pros & cons about them thankss:) between im barely a junior in high school
February 18, 2010 at 12:23 am | click here to view more
Voting Question: Serious girl problems/help needed!?
I’ve been friends with this girl for over 6 years now and I’ll give you a little info on the background. We met in jr high school, during this time we got really close and I knew she had feelings for me(Her friends would tell me). I thought she wasn’t the best looking so nothing ever happened but we still talked. Going through high school we talked occasionally and would hang out here n there. During my sophomore year we used to hang out almost every day, just about do anything from cruising the city tardy at night to getting coffee, we were always texting and what not. I really had a strong feeling we were making a connection but then she gets a bf and it kinda took me by surprise cause we were growing so close, being the dick that I was I stopped talking to her, got a gf and went on my possess way. During my junior and senior year in high school we talked here and there when we saw each other in class and had a pretty good relationship as friends. During my 1st year in college we would communicate here and there but due to her leaving for college it didn’t stay to in tack. My 2nd year of college she came back and went to a college nearby so we started talking back up again. We hang out here and there and when we go out she seems interested but I really can’t tell. I always text her first and most of the time I’ll rarely receive a response. I’ll be on facebook surfing around and notice she updates her status (through iphone) yet she won’t even text me back… She claims she is busy which she is (fulltime student/part time worker) but when we hang out or goto the bar shes ALWAYS on her phone. So I know this was a long one but I don’t know what to do… Do I tell her I have feelings for her or just stay friends? I mean I like being friends but would adore to be more cause she’s such a unique girl, and through the years I’ve began to start liking her more and more =/ ehhhhh please help! What should I do?!
February 15, 2010 at 6:56 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: What are my chances of getting into Boston University!? HELP!!!?
i have a 3.6 Gpa Horrible SAT & ACT score sat = 1500 act = 21 take every AP classes accept for math from 10th - 12th grade varsity captain of swimming and cross country involved in over 30 hours of community service so far this year total over the past few years = 100 or so Involved in Interact Club along with Varsity Club Have my possess surf clothing line sold in stores on the east coast Counselor at youth group for junior high students Help with autistic students and have done plays with them across nj and on pbs have a burning passion for Government and want to be a psychologist in FBI or Advocate for Autistic funds in schools across the country! what are my chances help!
December 16, 2009 at 8:39 pm | click here to view more
Voting Question: help me pick out a laptop..?
So my parents are rewarding me with a laptop and i need help picking one out. -im a junior in high school and want something that will last until at least sophomore year in college -i have a lot of music and pictures and need something that will be able to store it every -my basic activities are surfing the web, listening to music, watching videos, and typing papers -i dont want my parents to spend too much money (below 1100 if thats possible) -i dont want it to be slow! so if any of you guys has a suggestion, let me know :) thanks
December 14, 2009 at 12:23 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Ladies what do you think about my Ex?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together with her promising that she would never leave me again. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship a long time before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship first but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 9, 2009 at 8:01 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Ladies is it time to let go even if you're still in Love? Please Help!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together with her promising that she would never leave me again. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship a long time before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship first but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 9, 2009 at 7:43 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Ladies I Really need your Help on how to get Girlfriend Back!!! Please!!! Crying!!!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together with her promising that she would never leave me again. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship a long time before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship first but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 9, 2009 at 4:29 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Girls Can I Please Have Your Help?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together with her promising that she would never leave me again. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship a long time before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship first but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 9, 2009 at 2:02 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How to Cope with Heartbreak? What to Do? Please Help Me!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together with her promising that she would never leave me again. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship a long time before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship first but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 9, 2009 at 1:34 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Ladies, Can you Please Help Me Figure Out what my Ex is Trying to say? Please!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months. I took her back. We are both in college right now. I'm a senior and she's a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship for 2 years and known each other for 4 before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. She sent me the following text message... Anonymous, I'm always going to be okay with talking to you! I don't receive how you don't know that! You use a relationship as a justification for real feelings, I'm not like that and will have feelings for you even if you hated me! That's not what has changed! And if you want to talk, I do too! Very much! This isn't about anyone else. It's about the problems between you and me. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship with you. It's not right for me to say I am if I'm not. I really wish that we can talk thru it and one day be friends again. I know that's not right for either of us right now. Right now we both need to receive better as individual people and not as two people in a relationship. This is where I stand and if you don't want to talk to me anymore I understand and will look forward to the day we do receive to be friends again. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? I feel like everything is my fault :-( What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 9, 2009 at 11:39 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Girls help please???
just out of curiosity... do i sound like a nice guy? would u go out with me if you knew me? im 15 im a junior in highschool 5'11 135lbs black hair brown eyes i... play guitar am learning piano write music played baseball surf have a's and b's in highschool talk french am going out for track adore to talk like to hang out with friends the perfect girl for me would be a girl who is at least decent looking, but has a great personality. i'd adore a girl whos silly, smart, i can be myself around, and isnt too girly. but when it comes down to it, the most important thing for me is that she cares for me as much as i would for her. and i can actually hear and give a good opinion on rather u should go with french tips or regular paint(i wish that didnt sound gay). but ive been in martial arts so im not a softy either. heres a picture too. http://twitpic.com/cv77n i havent had a girlfriend for like 2 years, and i was just wondering what girls think about me now.or what can i do to look/act better. thanks for any answers u guys have=]
August 7, 2009 at 9:30 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: What Should I do About Girlfriend? Please Help!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. I really adore the girl that I was with and I really want her to stay with me but I just don't know what to do anymore. Can you guys please give me your thoughts and advise me on what to do next? It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: Ok, I just called her today and I feel nice of put off because she said she misses me a lot too but she won't call until after Friday because her cousins are over at her home. She puts me off a lot because of her family. Is this normal of most girls? What should I do now?
August 7, 2009 at 2:53 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: What laptop is better: Dell or HP?
I am going shopping for a laptop tomorrow but I'm not sure which one to buy between a Dell and an HP. My ideal price range would be from $399-$599. I am going to be a junior in high school and I just want to know which would be good. Uhh every I do is surf the internet and download music, watch youtube, you know regular stuff people do on the internet but I don't like constant freezing and one with a webcam and mic would be great. But yeah, HP or Dell?
August 7, 2009 at 11:22 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Trouble with Girl! Please Help Me!!!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together. We are both in college right now and I'm a senior and she's about to be a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. I really adore the girl that I was with and I really want her to stay with me but I just don't know what to do anymore. Can you guys please give me your thoughts and advise me on what to do next? It's been a couple of days now and we haven't talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her? Update: Ok, I just called her today and I feel nice of put off because she said she misses me a lot too but she won't call until after Friday because her cousins are over at her home. She puts me off a lot because of her family. Is this normal of most girls? What should I do now?
August 5, 2009 at 7:45 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Where can I find this Jacket?!?!HELP!!!!?
http://teenormous.com/go?id=Surf-Fanatics-Reef-Da-Bloom-Heather-Gray-Juniors-Full-Zip-Hoodie-Sweatshirt-157563 This is the jacket that i thought was really cute but i need to find one at like a walmart, or macy's or jc penny's .... u know... somewhere close.so can someone PLEEZE tell me where to find a cute hoodie/jacket with THUMBHOLES. every time i ask this question people just tell me of jackets without thumb holes. so please help.
August 29, 2009 at 5:14 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Please help! I feel really alone at a new school?
This is my first week at a new school as a junior. Before I went to a super tiny school of only 220 students. I was popular and fit in really well. My parents made me transfer to this school of 480 students, where I only briefly know a few people. I've tried being real friendly and nice to everybody, and although they were polite back, I haven't made any friends. This school doesn't have a cafeteria, you just sit wherever you want. Nobody has invited me to arrive have lunch with them and I've had lunch alone now four every four days. I feel really miserable, because I've been trying so difficult to start conversations with people and it hasn't gotten me anywhere. I feel like crying and that things won't receive better. I already signed to join the surf club hoping I'll meet new people, but I'm scared of getting ignored. I don't receive why no one is extending their hand toward me or at very least taking my hand. I know it's only the first week of school, but it's ben the toughest and loneliest of my life. Do you think things will receive better? I feel really certain that I haven't been acting too wierd, but the people I know haven't helped me one bit. For example: Girl I know: Hey Zack how's your first four days going? Me: Alright (lying of course)how's about you? Girl I know: Fine. Are you making any friends Me: Yeah I guess. It's kinda a pain in the *** to start form scratch socially though. Girl I Know: Don't worry things will receive better>(Walks off) She could of asked me if wanted to hang out. Right?
August 27, 2009 at 9:09 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Question about California universities?
All right, here's my story, I grew up in chicago and my whole life i have wanted to go to university in California. Although, the only problem is the economy is terrible right now there, and i dont think my parents have the money to send me to school out there. Iv'e been really interested in the UC schools especially San DIego and Pepperdine in California mainly cause they are right by the beach, and i adore to surf. I have looked into there chemistry and sciences programs, and it seems perfect for me. I am an honors society student, i have a 4.9 out of 5, and i am apart of the varsity track and basketball team for my school, and i have also been playing guitar for like 10 years. Would a junior college be the best option? and what about finding a job? i wish there is a way
August 26, 2009 at 10:35 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Suffering from Depression?
well im 16 yeard old guy. depressed about my appearence i guess and more. im tall with chin acne and some close eyebrow and nose. i have an underbite, makes me depressed. I have stretch marks on my back I have only one good pal, not motivated enough to go out and stuff. I lost interests in doing activities. I only surf the web and sit. I feel hopeless. I used to be a glad boy in 7th grade, then fell apart, had some girlfriends and enetering junior year now not one pal. Im not motivated to do anything at every. I dont know how to have fun :(
August 20, 2009 at 6:26 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I feel worthless. I don't know what to do.?
Ever since my dad passed away in May of 2005, I've felt so worthless and like I cannot accomplish anything in life. Since then, my grades have fallen, I haven't gotten many credits and I'm going to be a Junior this year. That just makes it even worse knowing I will not graduate on time with my proper class of 2011. It's depressing because I cannot catch up which just makes me so mad. I've been smoking a lot of marijuana since then, it is increasing at a rapid rate daily and I cannot cease it, I just feel so much better while I am high and like I don't have any problems. Also at night when I am just listening to music or surfing online I'll pause and think about the most random things that depress me and then sometimes I'll even put my head down and slowly start to sob, and I try not to wake my family up, if they knew I was in such a bad way the response would not be pleasant. I hate talking to counselors, they just cannot figure it out and whenever one tries to talk to me I just receive so much anger built up inside me and leave the office. I just feel like I am a pointless human being and I do not deserve to live anymore, I don't even know if I am suicidal because I am too much of a panzy to do anything stupid like shoot myself, I wouldn't do that. These are just emotional feelings, I'm not emo either I am a regular person. I don't know what to do anymore. Life is difficult. You mis-understood, I said I walk out on the counselor.
August 19, 2009 at 8:39 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Chances of Ivy League School?
I am a Junior(as of 08/24/09) have a 3.5 GPA, every Honors classes, am taking many AP credits, I am graduating high school on a three year program, I play guitar and piano(really well) in a south-west Florida band, surf, and play golf on the school team. I was born in the Ukraine(passport/birth certificate say USSR), talk fluent Russian and Ukrainian. If I receive a perfect 4.0 this year, do I have a shot at Harvard, Princeton, etc... If so, what SAT and ACT scores will I need? Mean't 3.8 GPA, NUM pad slip, sorry..
August 19, 2009 at 3:19 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I don't exactly feel like I fit in?
I'm going in to my junior year in high school. My school is private and fairly tiny (max 70 people in a grade). I have a good group of close friends and am friendly with most of the other people in my grade and people in other grades. But I feel like I don't really fit in sometimes. I like to surf, read, be at the beach and just chill. I am perfectly fine with staying home on the weekends or just hanging out with one or two people and watching movies. I'm not a huge party person. But I always think like what am I missing at these parties that I don't end up going to. Not in a way that I wish I had gone but like people will talk about stuff that happened at these parties for a while and I wasn't there. I think that maybe once I have a car and can receive myself everywhere instead of worrying about rides and stuff I'll be more inclined to go to the parties. Most of the people in my school are also friends with everybody at the other school like ours in the area. I have never really made friends with these people and I don't particularly care to. I also want to travel, and be able to experience life outside of this private school bubble. I want to be known as something other than the silent, nice, smart girl. I want to meet new people who like to chill out and hang out at home and don't care about partying or what everyone else thinks about them. I also hate having attention on me. I don't like having parties for myself and I know that even if I had a birthday party this year the "popular" people in my class would end up being the middle of attention and I'm not outgoing enough or good enough friends with them to like that. I feel like maybe if I had other friends I am really comfortable with it might be different... I'm not an outcast or anything I just wish I was in a different setting and I can't wait till college when I can meet really different people and people who have the same interests as me. Should I just suck it up and receive over myself and like the relax of high school for what it is or is this feeling legit? I also really look up to my older cousins who are as much as 24 years older than me. I just always feel like they should have gotten one of my friends or something as a cousin because they were popular and fun and didn't give a shit in high school and I just am nowhere close that while some of my friends definitely are...
August 14, 2009 at 3:54 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Ladies, is Ex Being Confusing?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months. I took her back. We are both in college right now. I'm a senior and she's a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship for 2 years and known each other for 4 before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. She sent me the following text message... Anonymous, I'm always going to be okay with talking to you! I don't receive how you don't know that! You use a relationship as a justification for real feelings, I'm not like that and will have feelings for you even if you hated me! That's not what has changed! And if you want to talk, I do too! Very much! This isn't about anyone else. It's about the problems between you and me. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship with you. It's not right for me to say I am if I'm not. I really wish that we can talk thru it and one day be friends again. I know that's not right for either of us right now. Right now we both need to receive better as individual people and not as two people in a relationship. This is where I stand and if you don't want to talk to me anymore I understand and will look forward to the day we do receive to be friends again. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? I feel like everything is my fault :-( What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 11, 2009 at 4:16 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: What Should I do with Confusing Ex Problem!? So sad and heartbroken:-(?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months. I took her back. We are both in college right now. I'm a senior and she's a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship for 2 years and known each other for 4 before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. She sent me the following text message... Anonymous, I'm always going to be okay with talking to you! I don't receive how you don't know that! You use a relationship as a justification for real feelings, I'm not like that and will have feelings for you even if you hated me! That's not what has changed! And if you want to talk, I do too! Very much! This isn't about anyone else. It's about the problems between you and me. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship with you. It's not right for me to say I am if I'm not. I really wish that we can talk thru it and one day be friends again. I know that's not right for either of us right now. Right now we both need to receive better as individual people and not as two people in a relationship. This is where I stand and if you don't want to talk to me anymore I understand and will look forward to the day we do receive to be friends again. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? I feel like everything is my fault :-( What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 10, 2009 at 8:23 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Can Someone Please Help me with Problem? :-( Will Give 5 Stars?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months. I took her back. We are both in college right now. I'm a senior and she's a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship for 2 years and known each other for 4 before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. She sent me the following text message... Anonymous, I'm always going to be okay with talking to you! I don't receive how you don't know that! You use a relationship as a justification for real feelings, I'm not like that and will have feelings for you even if you hated me! That's not what has changed! And if you want to talk, I do too! Very much! This isn't about anyone else. It's about the problems between you and me. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship with you. It's not right for me to say I am if I'm not. I really wish that we can talk thru it and one day be friends again. I know that's not right for either of us right now. Right now we both need to receive better as individual people and not as two people in a relationship. This is where I stand and if you don't want to talk to me anymore I understand and will look forward to the day we do receive to be friends again. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? I feel like everything is my fault :-( What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 10, 2009 at 5:04 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Ladies can you please tell me what Ex Means?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex pal a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months. I took her back. We are both in college right now. I'm a senior and she's a junior. The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to tutor her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night. Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes every guys want to be her friends which I know isn't really true. Well after we got into a battle about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn't ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn't ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn't be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in adore with her but now she says she's still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn't feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my adore for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in adore with me again. I told her we were in a relationship for 2 years and known each other for 4 before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship but she disagreed. She asked if I would arrive back later. She sent me the following text message... Anonymous, I'm always going to be okay with talking to you! I don't receive how you don't know that! You use a relationship as a justification for real feelings, I'm not like that and will have feelings for you even if you hated me! That's not what has changed! And if you want to talk, I do too! Very much! This isn't about anyone else. It's about the problems between you and me. Right now I don't want to be in a relationship with you. It's not right for me to say I am if I'm not. I really wish that we can talk thru it and one day be friends again. I know that's not right for either of us right now. Right now we both need to receive better as individual people and not as two people in a relationship. This is where I stand and if you don't want to talk to me anymore I understand and will look forward to the day we do receive to be friends again. What does she mean by every this? I'm really in adore with her so how can I receive her back? I feel like everything is my fault :-( What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she arrive back if I don't contact her? Please be as long as you want! I'm really heartbroken right now! :-(
August 10, 2009 at 3:27 pm | click here to view more